Welcome ALL of The Emotions. Allow Your Dark Side In.
Are you guilty of looking for fake gurus online? Or striving for the perfect life beyond the dark sides of being a messy and emotional human?
As an intuitive energy coach who has explored an abundance of healing modalities...you might think I have my emotions and life mostly under control now (it's only sunshine and rainbows from here) 🙈
But the truth is...I am very emotional and I welcome all emotions. I feel and live my emotions strongly.
I've tried to hide it and look good from the outside. But as the picture was shining, I was not happy inside.
When I started to accept myself WITH all of my strong emotions, I became happy. It changed my life completely: I left my corporate job and built a business that is led with strong emotions.
I found a partner that saw the 'emotional Gul' without her masks, and this relationship became catalyzer for the profound changes in my life.
As couples you mirror each other and sometimes you mirror your darkest sides, the sides that you are ashamed of.
Some people would say: “she is crazy”, but he says: “she is passionate and real”.
We learn from each other. This learning curve makes me balance my emotions better and learn from the mistakes.
❤️❤️ We all make mistakes.
Instead of judging my emotions, staying in the blame game and seeing myself as a victim, I can choose to dive deep into what triggers them and shift myself. Sometimes this shift means removing triggers from my life or setting healthy boundaries or changing my behavior…
When you are honest to your core, some people will still criticize you no matter what!
This is why I always advocate letting all emotions come and learning from them instead of saying “If you do meditation, you can get rid of all the anger and fear and live happily after.”
We find it easier to give advice to others, but when it comes to the self, we are stuck in fears or blaming the self or blaming others…
Fears are fears, emotions are emotions…They are there for everyone, and they will be there along the way. The one thing I learnt from all my clients is “fears will be there, the point is not get rid of them. The point is to understand and move and transform with them”.